REMINISCING

I still remember how I got into this world; a world that I didn't really know until the third month of exploring. 

The Sleeping Dinosaur, Mati, Davao Oriental

It was not my intention to find a job at that time 'coz I was still working for a local company in the country. I was browsing Facebook when a message popped out of the window saying that someone’s looking for an article writer. Out of curiosity and excitement, I immediately accepted the invitation and prepared a little for the interview. That was the time I first encountered JMR. She was the team’s Team Leader when I applied for social media content post writing. She then connected me to ME, the Post Production manager. I found her strong and strict based from her replies and the way she asked me questions about myself. Five minutes and it felt like 2 hours talking to her on Skype. Whew! My hands were sweating and freezing at the same time because of nervousness. The thing that broke the ice was when she asked me about my experience in sales and marketing. “So I assume you are an expert in that field,” she said and I replied; “Well as far as my confidence is concerned, I would say, yes.” I didn't expect her to respond like we’re having fun but she said, “That made my day, thank you.” Whew again, and I smiled. 

After the interview, I was redirected to JMR for a brief introduction and orientation about my job. And just after the short briefing, I started writing using the samples she gave me as my guide. I was introduced to my team and found good friends; MJE, NRD, SST, RC, and JMR herself. RC was a bit harsh at first with her feedbacks about my work and gave me some pointers to improve. Few days later, I slowly fell in love with the team and the BIGGER team, and found my labs, LC. I found a FAMILY. 

Just a month after I got hired, a great news came. The bosses are coming to meet us. WHOA!! So since the announcement, I practiced talking to myself in English, so I will be prepared if they talk to me or ask me something. That’s what’s supposed to happen, right? But the expected breath-taking scene was reversed. The Boss, DLR or also known as MBD was not mean like Simon Cowell; opposite from what I thought he was. When he opened his arms for us, we welcomed him wholeheartedly and found a TRUE friend in him. That was like “Unity of Two Species.” BOOM!! So, a new friendship was born. DLR, JA, NJDR, RP, GPC, MLC, JMR, NRD, LMS, AL, PMT, KT – The Originals. LOL. Having these people gave me more reasons to continue walking through my journey in the company. I never had dull moments with them. Everyone was always happy with the others’ company. We share hunger, disappointments, and dismay, which all turn into laughter every time we chat. We were invincible.

But the small family started to grow bigger and bigger as the demand got higher and higher; an inevitable phase of our life as a FAMILY. Sometimes we’re on a calm ocean, sometimes we were shaken by huge waves. That is how a wheel works. When hurricane K hit the home, it was already on intensity 4 where we had to put up a task force. We were unified by one goal, that was to survive and kick the hurricane K’s ass off of his eye wall. That’s when I found the other MM. (The rest is history.)

Of course, we surpassed the challenge brought by HK, and we rejoiced for the win. And that’s how the world began to turn heavier. People were thirsty of attention and power that changed the atmosphere to something I’ve always disliked. The healthy home of the family I’ve known has turned into a POLITICAL BATTLEFIELD. Envy, greediness, hypocrisy, and pride took over love and unity. 

I was lonely. I felt the pressure that everyone else also felt. Stress, depression, and frustration outgrew my happy, hopeful, and cheerful heart. I felt unsecured. Even with the threats from above, I strived so hard to protect my family members; the family that DLR created. I became their guardian. Months have passed and I was able to survive because of my eagerness to stay and make my small family a little bigger. I did. I tried. I was willing to fight for them, and I really did. I just couldn’t help but admit to myself that there will always be people who’ll try to pull you down, or climb up at the expense of others. I know. I have encountered them. I certainly know them. I was confused with things that I didn’t know; things that were sealed from us. :x 

I did not write this “short story” to rant or express negative feelings. I would like to say that we all have DREAMS. We all want to be somebody; someone that we wanted to be since World War 1. We all wish to be on a pedestal where everyone would look up to us. But if we really want to be on that position, we also need to think of others. Our dreams are connected, so do our lives. We do not only breathe for our own circulatory system to work. We work and live for our family, for the people around us, for our colleagues, for our teammates, for our adopted FAMILY, and for ourselves. We need to find our purpose in life and live with it. When we think of going up but someone has to fall down first; isn't that unfair or selfish or envious? Let’s say you are now up there, glorifying yourself for making it. Is that your purpose? Do you even call that a PURPOSE?

Now you have a team. You have your own small family. If that is your biological family, will you try to dominate using dirty plans? Will you kill your brother for your own PURPOSE? For your family to grow, you need to help them. If you know something that they don’t, tell them. Tell them as long as it’s not going to compromise your own work. Help them understand instead of doing it by yourself (so you’ll be the one to get the reward). Say what you think and start a conversation to fix things together. Laugh with them. Break the ice. Throw a joke even if it’s a thumb down. Make them feel trusted as you want them to trust you. Do things together so you’ll rise together. Recognize your neighbor’s achievement, be happy for them. Do not envy. Work hard to get what you deserve.

A friend told me this when I decided to leave; “Happiness is a choice.” Yes, it is. That’s why I chose to find my happiness in another way, in a different world. I did not leave to escape. I did it to give myself a time to find what I might have ignored. I chose to go to see things away from the pressure, and within a short period of time, I learned to understand. Well at least, maybe in my own understanding and in my own perception of “what is happening”. 

In the end, my decision matters and I know it makes a BIG SENSE. 

“There are some things success is not. It's not fame. It's not money or power. Success is waking up in the morning so excited about what you have to do that you literally fly out the door. It's getting to work with people you love. Success is connecting with the world and making people feel. It's finding a way to bind together who have nothing in common but a dream. It's falling asleep at night knowing you did the best job you could. Success is joy and freedom and friendship. And success is love.”

-Jenny Garrison, FAME (2009)

(It's Gonna Make Sense: Michael Learns to Rock)

Note: I chose to use initials of the people included in this post for their privacy.

Religious Debates?

Debates about religion occur because people of different religions and beliefs claim theirs to be right and forget to respect others'.

People have differences.

Level of Understanding.

Faith.

Attitude.

Knowledge.

The only thing we could do is to RESPECT each other's differences to help this world turn around lighter. What's the point of arguing about things you can't even prove with yourself? Unless you were present in that day that those scriptures first existed, you can never say that the one you are following is the rightest of all. The only thing that really matters is we believe in the existence of the Creator, Almighty and that He is the beginning and the end. If we just look around and notice, things become worse because of different opinions that push a simple issue to its limit. What's the tendency? Conversation turns into argument, then turns into a fight.

See? This is what happens if we keep on justifying things we are not even sure of.

Imagine a world that has no race or religion. Everyone embraces diversity. I think it would be a promising place to live.

So, please do the keyword to a better world.

R E S P E C T :)

PRE-MARITAL SEX: Commitment or Pleasure?

Start thinking NOW!! You seem to enjoy and forget the fact that it's a mortal SIN. What for??? To explore and try some adventures? Yes, it could be fun and as health practitioners say, "Sex is the best exercise."

But what's the point of doing that when you don't have any commitment?

It's so annoying when people say, "I did it because I love him," or "It's to show how much I love her," to prove that they're willing to do anything for love.

Is that even LOVE??? Is that the right way of proving it? Invade someone's privacy, claiming they're yours and pushing them to a choice that's against their will?

Excuse me... To wait for the right time is the greatest proof of loving. Respect justifies the trust that is given to you by your partner, especially the girls. If they say YES, then go! But if it's NO, you have to deal with it. Don't waste your time arguing about it 'cause you'll just end up hurting each other or worse, BREAK UP. So, why let your sexual urges ruin your relationship? Is that even worth it? 

THINK.

Girls, stand for what is RIGHT and not just for what YOU THINK is right. Keep that self-preservation 'til the right time comes.

Guys, RESPECT!!

Now THINK AGAIN....